Before had only heard “toward toots one's own horn”, has not thought of Turkey, but also has experienced really, but is not pastes on the face, but hangs on the body. “gilds” is at the Turkish wedding ceremony an essential link.
Happy pair's friends and relatives can prepare the bridegroom's gift to bride's family beforehand, but is not with the red cloth wrapper, but is takes shining in the hand.wedding ceremony
The most common bridegroom's gift to bride's family has the golden bangle, the gold coin (minute size two kinds) with the Turkish paper money (from 20, 50 to 100 liras not to wait). The time one, the honored guests line up, arrives in front of the new person to offer a gift one by one.
Some wear the bangle in the bridal skill, some stick the gold coin or the bill the white filament which wears in the new person to take to bring with The Turk is also fastidious about the ritual light cordiality to be heavy, therefore the bridegroom's gift to bride's family value may be possible to be small greatly, decided by the respective economic potentiality. Generally speaking, after the gilding ceremony ended, on bride's arm could hang up several sparkling golden bangles, but the bridegroom front pasted has filled the colorful lira, looked at the human to be dazzled. Delivers the bridegroom's gift to bride's family, all guests start to sing and dance, this time celebrates the atmosphere reaches the high tide.
Every year the lunar calendar eight months 15, occupies the time which gets together in the sword bund's Pai national minority youth. Every year this time, the girl young fellow can when the dusk divides the boat to arrive at the center of the lake, each ship is separated by more than 20 rice, everybody sings in the bow, to seek for the loved one loud to sing the melody.
Time sings is certain, after the young fellow in advance will prepare the good candle lamp lights, to put to the level of the lake on, no matter what it drifts about with the wind. Which girl's bow does the candle lamp float to, if the girl extinguishes the lamp pouring, explained that the girl is not willing to accept young fellow's pursue. If the girl meets the candle lamp happily,certain ceremonies
the young fellow may his ship and girl's ship stem for stem, and the jumping up girl's ship, to sings with it “the bridging” the accent.
Then two people may through to the song, as soon as soon as sings answers, further develops. In places housing's the such as the Yunnan Lanping, Bijiang Pai national minority collateral series - - that horse people, the youth men and women from 16, seven years old start to talk love generally. If that horse young fellow has settled on a girl, he by any means possible will inquire about the girl will walk frequently mountain road.
When and so on girls come out, the young fellow hides in branches off the road junction, picks the branch, places center the crossing, direction which wants toward oneself. When the girl approaches, one side the young fellow walks forward, at the same time often backward observes girl's motion. The girl saw after branching off the road junction branch and the front young fellow, hotel interior design
if walks toward branch's direction, indicated that she agrees with young fellow's proposing. If does not refer to the direction toward the branch to walk, explained that she does not accept the young fellow. The young fellow looks in front that the manner is also clear at a glance to the girl.
Does that horse person young fellow have the object, so long as looks at their shoe, if on their foot is putting on four nose straw sandals, explained that the young fellow already had the loved one. These four nose straw sandal, is the girl gives the young fellow. That horse girl goes to school since childhood knits the straw sandal, generally gives brothers the sisters and the relatives and friends is two nose straw sandals, only then gives the sweetheart is four nose straw sandals.
In Dali, the Pai national minority delivers subscribes the wedding ceremony certainly to by six ideas, for instance 16, 106, 266 and so on,Arabian Nights it is said by now the Pai national minority because was six imperial edicts (time the Tang Dynasty Dali area six tribes) the descendant, the ancestor gives Datang's present every year is six, Datang makes a return gift the present is also six, therefore the engagement intercourse present must bring “six”.
The Pai national minority which lives east Erhai, the wedding ceremony retention has many ancient customs. Marries this day, the bridegroom brings to fetch the bride to meet the bride the troop to the bride's family, when arrives at the new maternal home entrance, the bridegroom will fish out three wax pills, will pound one after the other to new maternal home entrance's Shi Dun, will send out three giant artillery sounds.
Originally this is their self-restraint earth bomb. Bomb's gunsmoke has not dispersed, the young fellow carries is being loaded with the cigarette, the liquor, the tea, the sugar big tea tray, as soon as bows to the visitor, welcomes the visitor. After the bridegroom has met the bride gets oneself home, as soon as enters the groom's family main house gate, the happy pair is snatching toward the nuptial chamber medium-distance running, looked that who seizes first to the nuptial chamber in the pillow, indicated that who hasn't come home the human who is master of own affairs.